With that said you are probably thinking, “You have your wedding all planned out!” Incorrecto mi amigo!
While I definitely have ideas on what I like (disclaimer: and of course getting perspective on what my wonderful fiancé wants), I need to be realistic about what I can handle, and therefore need to put on my big girl pants and ask for help. For example, I would love to do my own flowers, but they are a lot of work and having rose thorns stuck in my hands probably won’t look so glamourous in that typical close up picture of your hands and ring, nor do I want to lay in bed the night before the wedding wondering if I wired all the roses or forgot a corsage for Grandma.
- Geographical Note: my friends from the East Coast had never heard of a “personal attendant.” They did not believe me until I told them to go home and Google it. Well my friend Kim called me back the next day and said, “I looked it up online and didn’t see anything!” I asked her what she Googled and she said “Personal Care Attendant,” to which I laughed and said that is a whole different kind of friend . . . ha ha.